Why”I’m Fine” Is Not Valid in 2020

how to respond to how are you questions

Written by MODISHYE

August 31, 2019

Dear How Are You?

You will be amazed how many times I get asked the “How are you?” question on a daily basis, and frankly, I am tired of answering.

I mean, let us be honest with ourselves. You are not going to tell the individual who asked you the question the whole rundown of how you stayed up till 7 a.m. to turn in a paper that is due at 11 or how your roommate is constantly nagging about the lights being on when you are trying to be productive; I am glad I brought a lamp to school. It is not realistic because people just don’t have the time to talk and listen to every detail of how your day went. Okay, let us change gears for a second and let me say in my experience because maybe regularly you have someone to share all those forgotten details with. So, in my experience, people just want to text and answer such an unending question. I say it’s unending because there are always follow-up questions; I mean, that is, if the person is clinging to your words and their attention is undivided. And I am telling you right now, I am not answering such a question through text. I am a student. I also work, volunteer, usher, vlog, and now I am blogging. How do I answer how I am?The student aspect of my life can take about five to six paragraphs, depending on the day and class. All professors cannot be placed in the same category. Ahhh, with their wahala, I no fit to quantify it, Jare! I just do what I have to do. Do not let anyone deceive you. College is hard, and the workload becomes unbearable at one point, but it has to get done. How do you comprehend that concept through text? My responsibilities range from managing to filing to collaborating with my fellow colleagues to maintain the satisfaction of our members. I am so grateful for the opportunity, and with everything in life, precision is required.

Last but not least, the vlogging and blogging aspects of my life. I am experiencing with both. I am learning how to edit and create videos that I find entertaining and uplifting because I am a firm believer that tomorrow has to get better. But do you want to hear how I have been trying to edit a gospel playlist video for the past couple of days, and iMovie has been acting like an enemy of progress? I am way past infuriated, but I am not giving up until no solution can be rendered.  With all this being said, recently, when someone asks me how I am, I say I am alive! Often, many people, including myself, get frustrated with the tasks that life demands of us and forget the simple fact that we are breathing. So, that is what I am saying, and if further discussion is needed, then we will talk about it, but certainly not through text. The general bullet points can be said through text, but some things are best told in person or, my personal favorite, over the phone. 

Yours sincerely,

Modish__ye 

P.S. The song associated with this post is I Smile by Kirk Franklin.

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1 Comment

  1. Action

    How am I?
    Verticle
    Upright
    Glad to be Alive
    Everything else is just fluff in the middle.

    God in Action!!!

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